Memos

excessive interference of child’s life. monitor all aspects, criticize only based on own opinios, which many times can be biased, lack of science proof, misunderstanding. The more efforts, the stronger believings in having more or any rughts about the child. over confident. always belief being "right", kowning everything  well. own opinion must be agreed upon, and different opinion not tolerated. "picky" about everything, anybody all the time. Always being condescending to others, including own chikd and mother. Lack respect to people who are considered "inferior", e.g. of less reduction, of "inferior" occupation. poor considerations for other people‘s feelings and way of thinking. The worse is to accuse others with hurtIng words when agreement or acknowledgement cannot be achieved. Self harsh words can always be justified, but nit othet people‘s. lack of self management. even acknowledges irregular rest time, alcohol consumption, overweight, dis...

Furniture for the new home, about 2 million. washing machine about 350k Car insurance about 50k per year. Until the graduation from medical school. Realty tax, about 400k per year? Untill child's graduation from medical school  Entrance fee for child's medical school, about 3 million. Tuition fee for the last year of medical school , about 3 million? Living expenses for the last year of medical school, 1million Electric bills, 20 to 50k per month  Internet&phone, about 8k per month Lent about 4 million to the sister  All kinds of expenses for the 1year stay of the patient and the son in Boston. Two bicycles of at at least a few hundred dollar, internet, newspaper subscription, all kinds of shopping etc. Monthly total were usually over 500k yen. gasoline fees fort he and sometimes highway tolls for.the patient’s car 30k for child’s Oiwayi money for friend’s new born baby (2024,5) mil plane teket 60k Setagaya pay deposit? 30k washing machine, over 300k property life ins...

Things happened on the 2nd day of a supposedly happy family reunion trip. The first day and night, the following morning were all.good and happy. Things went wrong unexpectedly during a supposedly happy shopping hour. The patient suddenly got mad at the child, because the child baught one goods for the other spause at a shopping mall, before buying one for the patient. Although the child already had offered to pay for other purchase which were for the patient. The patient ran away without being noticed, from the family. The child called and  begged the patient to come back, loudly among the customers in the same mall. The child painfully tried to apologize, explaining about the previous offer for the patient. After some dozens of miserable minutes, the child finally managed to locate the patient, and luckily was able to calm the patient down. After being able to have calm conversation with the patient, the child silenly wiped uncontrolable tears. Two nights later, at night the pati...